Why Do We Talk to Ourselves? by Julianna Rowe

WHY DO WE TALK TO OURSELVES? by Julianna Rowe

Apparently I Needed an Expert Opinion

I talk to myself and not occasionally, either. I mean I have full conversations where I ask questions and I answer them. Sometimes I disagree with the answer and have to reconsider my position. This morning I walked into the kitchen and said, “What did I come in here for?” Nobody answered so I asked again. Still nothing so I figured apparently the other person in this relationship isn't very helpful.

I talk to myself while driving, while cleaning, and especially in the grocery store. “No, you don't need that.” “Yes, I do.” “No, you don't.” “It's on sale.” And just like that, I have won the argument and bought something I didn't need. Maybe impulsive buying?  Maybe I should try Door Dash but then what would I talk about? No aisles, not carts, no parking issues, and no decisions.

The really disturbing part is when I say something funny and laugh at my own joke. All the while, I am alone. That's when I wonder whether I should be concerned. But here's what I've decided: talking to yourself is perfectly normal. It's when you start losing the arguments that we may need to call somebody.

Until then, I'm keeping the conversations going. After all, sometimes I'm the only person around here who understands what the heck I'm talking about. And even THAT is questionable depending on the day.

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