Good Bye Tim: by Julianna Rowe (The song to the right goes with the post.)

 

Goodbye Tim

I sit before the screen silently waiting

For?

You never married, Tim...

Folding my hands to a tightness unknown.

Search engine for?

Killing time.

Six years and nothing.

Hollow space inside.

You died.

YOU DIED.

Where to go?
Wait, I know.

Here, where I am!

To be the best I can be without Tim.

Goodbye Tim

Good Bye........Tim

I'm leaving with my dog Jim...

Goodbye Tim

I sit before the screen silently waiting

For?

You never married me, Tim...

Folding my hands to a tightness unknown.

Search engine for?

Killing time.

Six years and nothing

Hollow space inside

You died.

YOU DIED.

So I'm leaving town with my dog Jim

Good bye Tim

 

The Love of My Life Really Wasn't: Love or Money? by Julianna Rowe

 Love or Money?  There is a song I wrote in the column to the right.......  

                                                      This is a re-post story- but the song I wrote Yesterday!

Personally I have come to learn we can love more than one person but in different ways. I could go into a long love story here that lasted "three years to life" (some call that a sentence)......add to it all the ups and believe me the downs....add the children, hurt.....the flights back and forth from Texas to Wisconsin every week.....the heart pounding races to the airport with what seemed like movie star red carpet meetings at the entrance gates bounding into the warm passionate arms of one another then building further to gentle yet firm kisses for all to view. Never knowing anyone else was in the building. Carrying luggage, sharing meals, drinks, loving tenderly....dancing closely, laughing uncontrollably, and best of all looking into one an others eye's seeing the reflection of only one of two. We shared a Deep love indeed. I have heard that money is the root of all evil. Pain could be included in that circle of adjectives regarding pain. Grief too. The world says true and honest Love is all good and pure. So there you have my story.  Basically my story is tied up in two sentences or even two words. Love or Money? He chose the money and I was left with the grief and pain. I thought I should die. Long story again.... humm maybe some day I shall have more time for believe me this would be a great book. The tall dark and oh so handsome cowboy, and I shall add, rich cowboy too. He purchased for me a brand new 19 (never mind it would show my age totally) something burgundy and white Grand Prix. Asked me to marry him...... I hear it was something about his "Daddy" that stopped the gentle deep love, the travel, the red carpet meetings, the marriage, the everything, in our tracks. In a motel outside a dusty small town in western Oklahoma, where he was instructed and sent to give me the family decision, we sat on the edge of the bed and sobbed together like two children. Daddy chose new tracks for my fiancé, and I felt like a homeless bum left in a box car on those lonely tracks, alone to die. A lost Love can make a person feel like that. Yet as the years past he was always that little box of a dream I could go to when I needed. He was a photo in the second drawer of my jewel box and a chapter in my life book page 266. He was not my God but he was one of my earthly treasures I always hoped to meet again whether at age eighty on earth or in love in the heavens hereafter. Over the years we spoke by phone a few times, even met once. Oddly the man I did marry lived in a small town in Texas where my love built and opened a business one mile away from our home. Oddly?? I would say. One mile from us. By then he had more children and so had we. The next time we spoke he had 14 Grandchildren and I had 6..... I knew then heaven was about the only place we might ever be together at again. Yes I am laughing. On occasion during a boring evening at home I would Google his name. Yes I did! And finally one night I found pictures of he and his family...all six children, the Grands, his still living Mother.....and Jackpot, I found one of his daughters on a Face Book site. He was bald and I barely recognized him. Looking at his photo I could still feel the warmth and safety of his arms and the softness of his lips on mine. Whoa, hold it..STOP SIGN! My heart dropped at my computer desk...my dreams smashed, my hopes lost, my years of deep wanting and memories crushed like a mile wide tornado came onto my screen and into the furrows of my mind and left me empty. Crap, now that's twice I am left empty by this fellow. My fault...I could have kept my delusional dreams and fake security forever if I hadn't hit that keyboard or joined face book. Now I don't even have a fake memory of a deep love and all that shit! Why I wouldn't even want to be with him in heaven because he might be standing next to Trump!! See the money won out again in the end.... the money even took my fragile dreams. I say I deserve it all back! So the moral of this love story is that it really wasn't. Be careful what you pray for because they say you might just get it!.

Really? Who Cares? by Julianna Rowe

 The song to the right is written by me!  It goes with this Post.  And Copyrighted.

Who Cares?   No one knows I gently placed a photo of them high atop my antique wardrobe within view of my slumber area to view at each days end.  Or at an interval during the day when I am passing and look up at the photo while tossing a sweater into the hamper, then moving on.

No one knows about the wine glass Sarah painted for me seven years ago with broches laying among the beautifully painted flowers holding the glass. How I walked to get the bamboo stool from next to the high bed, walked to the kitchen to reach the grass on the top shelf. To then walk it back to the old antique wardrobe and fill it with grandma's old broches. 

Then set it next to my mirrored jewel box and old doll from Germany not to be seen by anyone, probably ever, as she is hidden back in the dark corner of the tall box.  

Who would know the one broch among the many was worn in 1957 at Grandma Tillie's fiftieth wedding anniversary dance.  Or that the other broch was worn by me a hundred times while I was a successful insurance agent who walked with a spring in her step and a deep kindness in her heart.

No one knows the fur scarf that drapes over the pearl pillow I made came from an $800 coat gifted me by a lover I met while traveling the South.

That lover and I secretly driving to a rendezvous area, making love under a large tree that covered us with a secure blanket of safety. After a lingering time never to see him again. Decades later. No one knows my mind in the dark hours before dawn.  No one knows the lack of breath I feel or the fear of how to walk in it and with it.  The lack of life force energy doesn't offer sustenance. It  maintains my temporary life force but....there is no security at the primal base.  None, unless I create it and earn paper money for what I create.  The broches don't pay. The photo memories don't pay. The rendezvous by the tree is a blip in time for what?  A miniscule dot on my brain, an intangible noting no one in any of the vast Universes knows of but me.  What was it for? Maybe for this moment only.  At 3:11 am four decades later so an old woman could relive that lovemaking rendezvous out in the West Texas countryside with a handsome viral rich businessman just like herself.  Then driving away, free, long blonde hair, loosely wrapped scarf blowing in the wind.  Smile lingering, and secure.  Unlike today. Where nothing matters, no one calls as often, or cares as much.  The body weakening, the mind failing.   The broch lay in its wine glass tomb and I in my tombstone mind. How do I roll it away so I can get paid and live on.  Living isnt free.  Only memories are. 

Snap out of it.  There are more broches under the bed and in the box in the closet.  

Move on Julianna. You got this. It was just a bad dream honey. Although getting older does change our lives.  

P.S. I  had surgery today on a skin cancer and could not bend down to get Grandma's broches out from the bottom of my closet for a photo.  So I borrowed one online from Zaza of Canada.  Those are her broches.... Later's on my Gma Tillie's.   

The Marble Cake Disorder..... by Julianna Rowe

 The Marble Cake Disorder—(Pardon my occasional bad cell "French!")

They never die. They leave their “shit” among us in our cells, our DNA, and spread like diarrhea depending on the percentage of positive or negative cells. 

We grieve their bacteria-ridden skin and put marble stones atop their rotting graves (forgive me), but they are still here. Beware of where "they" have been and still are in your mental and physical body. 

I am no psychics professor, but can you imagine the equation for generations of shit? Cells left behind. Good and bad, however, the bad seem to carry a heavier, louder weight. Say it with a megaphone. Of course, meekness is not a good cornerstone, yet it is preferred. We mentally paint a pretty picture of what we want to see, but the other side of the picture is reality. Some call that black and/or white swirling together like the marble cake mixture of the mind. Impossible. Keep blending it until the black and white levels out and one cannot take over the other. Hard, I know. Not really if good is chosen, but then, as I said, the bad dead cells live on, and depending on their strength, their weight can overtake. So can the good, but the challenge is the rather.

Identify the genes/cells' reproductive shit that is NOT in the grave, rather dancing within you and yours. Kick out the ones that do no good and teach your people the same. (Easy for me to say) The more you “rid,” as in lice, yourself and yours on a continual basis of either the good or bad, they eventually die out and the stronger remains. That is a war that never ends. "The Marble Cake" lives on. 

My reference to lice was referring to the immense difficulty in their removal. The product Rid is only the beginning. Each teeny, tiny, minuscule nit (baby) must be picked out by hand, usually more than once. No different than our grandma's generational cells. At least we can see lice!! Grandma left us an invisible challenge.

Religion calls it good or evil with a Supreme God at the middle in charge of your generational cake mixture. They say, "Praise and worship him, and the off-balance marble cake has no power." That works for many to keep the bad cells from taking over. Balance has never been easy. Physically or mentally. Balancing dead ancestors is the key to life. Because they are not dead. Grandma’s shit is in your bones, and you better not forget it.

We busy our minds. Keep mental rooms with locked doors. When our mental doors are locked, we feel safe and cannot see what is coming. Mentally or physically until it hits us in the head or knocks us down completely. Like a child hiding under the covers. Yet it's all still there, coming at us or in us. Stop running. Thus, the words. Face your fears or simply face your generational issues. Or face your GREATNESS.

It's all in "The Marble Cake."  
We all have MPD or MCD to some degree. Multiple Personality Disorder. Marble Cake Disorder.

You only can manage and balance your generational Marble Cake.

Taint easy. 

The old “He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother” (or Grandmother etc.) is not true.

 

                                 Linley C. Morrison—Grandfather

                                Grandmother and Great-Grandmother

                                         My great-great-grandfather is on the left. Harry Morrison-Me age 4

                                                

Diamonds Are Forever.. A true story by Julianna Rowe

   Diamond’s are Forever   (A true story)

They say God speaks to me in a quiet, still voice.

Among the traffic and life’s harsh noise.

I lie still in my bed for as long as I can.

To listen and see if I get to hear from the man…

My ears are ringing from God only knows what.

And the TV news is talking nothing but smut.

The next day comes, and I try again.

Finding a way to run from political newsmen.

Sitting quietly watching YouTube’s fireplace scene

Hoping to hear God’s gentle lighted beam.

When a cluster of diamond dust burst out of the dark.

Yes, into the room it was spark after spark.

I counted it roughly fifteen times over.

As I rubbed my eyes gently, begging it to hover.

But it exited the door, and I wondered no more.

If that were the God that loved me to my core.

What a great person I must be to receive a visit from thee.

Never shall I forget how much he loves me.

By Julianna Rowe: A true story

 

  

My Hidden Universe Within?..... by Julianna Rowe

The Brooch?

Who cares? Two words with an ending mark. A question short of emotion... 

No one, or any particular person, knows I carefully and gently placed a photo of them at my day's end, high atop an antique wardrobe within view of my slumber area. A silent offering to my hidden universe. 

At any interval during any day when I am passing, I look up at the photo while tossing a sweater or socks into the hamper as I move past. Its meaning is only for me. 

No one knows about the seven-year-old wine glass Sarah painted for me. No one cares how I walked from one end of the apartment, weak while recovering from a three-week virus, to the other end to get the bamboo stool from the high bed and walk it back to the kitchen to reach that wine glass on the top shelf of the round corner cabinet. Then walk it back to the old antique wardrobe and fill it with Grandma's or my old brooches, set it just right next to the mirrored box and old doll from Germany not to be seen by anyone, probably ever. Who would care anyway? 

Who would know the one brooch among the many was worn in 1957 at Tillie's fiftieth wedding anniversary dance? Or one of the other ones was worn by me a hundred times while I was a successful insurance agent who walked with a spring in her step and a deep kindness in her heart.

No one knows the fur scarf came from an $800 coat gifted to me by a lover I met while traveling in the South. We would secretly drive to a rendezvous area and make love in nature near a beautiful, huge tree that comes into my mind on days I might need it. To never see him again. Yet the memory touch sparked a cascade of beauty from a different world, offering me a beautiful yet silent language in a glass in my old bedroom wardrobe. Security, that is. The lack of life force energy doesn't offer sustenance. It maintains my temporary life force, but....there is no security at the primal base of my life at this time. None, unless I create it and earn paper money for what I create. 

The brooches do not pay.  The photo memories do not pay.  The rendezvous by the memory tree is a blip in time for what? A minuscule dot in my brain, an intangible nothing no one in any of the vast universes knows of but me. What was it for? Maybe for this moment only? At 3:11 am, four-plus decades later, so an old woman could relive a love rendezvous out in the West Texas countryside with a handsome, rich businessman just like herself. Then driving away, free, long blonde hair loosely wrapped in a scarf blowing in the wind behind me as a sign something had passed. Smile lingering, secure. Unlike today. Where nothing matters, no one calls or cares. The body weakening, the mind failing.

The brooch lay in its wine glass tomb, and I in my tombstone mind.

How to roll it away like they say Jesus did on the 3rd day?

I must roll it away and move forward to get paid and live on. Living isn't free. Only memories are.

Snap out of it. There are many more brooches under the bed and in the box in the closet. More stories to tell. 

You've got this. No one said growing old was going to be easy. 

I lean on my hidden Universe within.

No Empty Corners......by Julianna Rowe

 No Empty Corners

I have no empty corners

I am a wall hoarder   

I got this from my grandma Gillie

If there is an empty spot

I will fill it with a lot

At the least a spool, a plant, or table

Anything at all to keep my mind stable.

An empty space means trouble

Probably why I am not a couple

For who could stand such OCD

And park their car to live with me.

My busy home is done in great taste

It is a bit busy but classy at its base.

I am not a woman with thirty-yard arts,

My home is full of items from the heart.

I see my Granddaughter got the same gene

Good luck to her trying to keep it all clean.

There is more than meets the eye in my home

A wonderful place for your heart to roam

My mini museum from the 30’s and 40’s

My walls are my never-ending stories

To make life more beautiful is the rule

The bathroom, the bedroom, using my tools.

Cats and birds and ten clocks read my days

Old and new, striped pillows join the maze

Six TV’s I rarely watch so not alone

Life and color, come love in my zone

A real live cat named Bob quietly sleeps

Near a peacock feather and a strand of pearls

Fairy lights dance among my collection of mirrors

To keep at bay a reflection of tears

Beads and crystals glistening the sun

This happy place is always fun

Or maybe it’s just a lonely love story

Oh, hell no, it is Bogart, love 'n never being sorry

Leather, rocks, wood, and fairies dance in my lighted glory.

I promise this is no fish story!

It is the deep breath I so wonderfully need

By Julianna Rowe   2025